To the Moon and Back Book Club Questions
10 discussion questions for To the Moon and Back by Eliana Ramage.
October 18, 2026
Spoiler warning: some questions touch on how the book ends. Best read after you've finished it.
Discussion questions
- How does Steph's early experience of fleeing to Cherokee Nation with her mother and sister shape her determination to become an astronaut?
- What role does the moon play as a symbol throughout the novel, particularly in relation to Steph's ambitions?
- Do you think Hannah made the right decision to flee her abusive husband, considering the impact it had on her daughters' lives?
- Discuss how Kayla's journey as an artist and social media influencer contrasts with Steph's path to becoming an astronaut.
- In what ways does Della Owens' struggle to reclaim her Cherokee identity influence her relationship with Steph?
- How does the author use the novel's structure, spanning three decades and multiple continents, to enhance the storytelling?
- What are some moments in the book where Steph's ambition seems to put her personal relationships at risk, and how does she handle these conflicts?
- Do you agree with the choices Steph makes to prioritize her career over her family at times, or do you think she could have balanced her priorities differently?
- Reflect on the ending of the novel: does it provide closure to Steph's quest, and how do you feel about her final destination?
- Have you ever pursued a goal that took you far from your roots or family, and if so, how did you balance personal ambition with familial responsibilities?
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