Cover of Totally and Completely Fine by Elissa Sussman

Totally and Completely Fine Book Club Questions

10 discussion questions for Totally and Completely Fine by Elissa Sussman.

October 18, 2026

Spoiler warning: some questions touch on how the book ends. Best read after you've finished it.

Discussion questions

  1. How does Lauren's relationship with her brother Gabe influence her decisions throughout the novel?
  2. What role does the small Montana town play in shaping Lauren's identity and choices?
  3. Discuss Lauren's initial attraction to Ben Walsh. How does this attraction evolve over the course of the story?
  4. How does the alternating timeline between Lauren's past with Spencer and her present with Ben affect your understanding of her character?
  5. Was Lauren right to pursue a relationship with Ben despite the complications of his fame?
  6. What impact does Lauren's daughter have on her relationship with Ben, and how does Lauren navigate these challenges?
  7. Do you think Lauren's rebellious spirit is a strength or a hindrance in her journey of self-discovery?
  8. Lauren deals with small-town rumors throughout the book. How do these influence her actions and perceptions of herself?
  9. How does the ending of the novel reflect Lauren's growth and her ability to be true to herself?
  10. Can you relate to any of Lauren's experiences of balancing old roles with new possibilities in your own life?

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